Rethinking Impartiality

Rethinking Impartiality

The Epistle of James continues to challenge me. Here James warns fellow followers of Christ about showing partiality. Partiality rears its head when we make judgments about individuals and show preferences based on those judgments. While James gives the example of preferring those based on material wealth, the warning is equally applicable regarding race, gender or age. My immediate reaction was, “Whew! I’m off the hook this week—I don’t do that!” After all, I am appalled when I see anyone hurt by racism or discrimination. It deeply grieves me.

 

But, is showing partiality not just about what we feel about others, but what we fail to do?

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The Last Chance Mirror

Wherever she has lived, my daughter has always placed a mirror right next to her front door. She calls it her “last chance mirror.” It gives her one last chance to assess herself before she goes out into the world. Rather than take a moment to admire what she sees, Ricki looks to see what she might need to fix.  Is there lipstick on her teeth? Breakfast on her cheek? There is no point to look at the mirror, or even have the mirror if she then just walks out the door without following up with the appropriate adjustments.

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Consider it pure joy!

Really?  Is it possible to “consider it pure joy” when we face trials? Admittedly, this may not be the first thing you tell someone who is in a hard place. As I wrote last week, before Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead, He wept, demonstrating His compassion for those hurting. But nonetheless, this is a Truth for followers of Christ. By the power of God’s Spirit we can consider any trial we face as joy. But the key to understanding how this is possible is in understanding the word, “consider.”

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"She has done what she could"

My mother-in-law Diane, a dear Christian mentor and friend, surprised me when she expressed her uncertainty about whether she had “done enough” in the last months of her husband’s life as he suffered from bone cancer. Managing his pain was often difficult, but I witnessed Diane not only pray for him, but research every medical possibility for pain management as well as for healing. Rarely did she leave his side, spending countless days and nights in hospitals. To me, she gave new meaning to “until death do us part.”  How could Diane wonder if she had done enough? Yet at times, haven’t we all pondered this same question?

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Living in a Cone of Uncertainty

Living in a Cone of Uncertainty

During every major natural disaster I learn a new meteorological term. Last year before hurricane Matthew hit the east coast, I became very familiar with the term “storm surge.” This year’s term was “the cone of uncertainty.” Every time I turned on one of the weather channels I saw a map describing the cone and warning residents and visitors within the cone to prepare for the hurricane. Having numerous family and friends, as well as property in Florida, I watched closely and with concern as this cone shifted across the state of Florida.  This uncertainty was the source of anxiety for millions. More than once I thought, the better term is the “cone of anxiety.”

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Have you not read?

Each summer I look forward to any time I can steal away to lounge  by a pool or beach and read a good book. One of my favorite conversations with trusted fellow readers begins, “Have you read…?” I have been known to stay up all night with a good book, savoring the end, and grieving when I have to say good-bye to the characters. It is one of my life’s most satisfying pleasures.

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Is there a log in my eye?

For newcomers to my blog, a little background: I have spent the past few months reflecting on questions that Jesus asked His disciples or the crowds that followed Him. This examination has revealed that many of the questions were meant to draw the listener into a deeper relationship with Him. Jesus asks them with the purpose of calling us to come to a decision as to who He is—teacher, prophet, or Lord: He asks other questions to help us see that living under His Kingdom authority should redefine how we relate to others. If we love Him, then the follow up is— How are we loving others? I find these are often more challenging to answer.

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Do you believe that He is able to do this?

 And as Jesus passed on from there, two blind men followed him, crying aloud, “Have mercy on us, Son of David.”  When he entered the house, the blind men came to him, and Jesus said to them, “Do you believe that I am able to do this?” They said to him, “Yes, Lord.”  Then he touched their eyes, saying, “According to your faith be it done to you.” Matthew 9:27-29

 

For some time, the blind men had followed Jesus, the same Jesus who had just healed a paralytic and raised a girl from the dead. They cried aloud, “Have mercy on us, Son of David,” an incredible declaration of the deity of Christ. Everyone knew that the “Son of David” was the long-awaited promised Messiah. They—these blind beggars— believed Jesus was He. But Jesus waits before He heals them, and asks them a probing question first. “Do you believe that I am able to do this?”

This.

 

 

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Who Touched Me?

I spent the past few days visiting my son in New York City. Having gone to law school and worked in the city for years, it often feels like home. Yet sometimes, the crowds on the streets overwhelm me. Pushed and jostled, I feel claustrophobic, and I want to escape the crowd immediately. I am hard-pressed to think of a sufficiently compelling reason that would thwart me from finding a calmer place. But, with a swarm of people surrounding Him, Jesus had a reason.

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"Do You Love Me?"

Jesus asked of Peter, not once, not twice, but three times, “Do you love me?” This is the question that tends to make us feel a bit sorry for Peter. Yes, he denied Jesus three times before the crucifixion, but isn’t Jesus rubbing salt in the wound to ask him three times if he loves Him? Three times. Why three? Wouldn’t one time have been sufficient? Did Peter really need three reminders?

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